Anne Fisher, Fortune senior writer, describes 8 ways to be a better boss: Companies increasingly want managers to act more like coaches. Here’s a short course in helping your team shine.
The coaching and mentoring model of leadership is effective in leading volunteers because it puts its emphasis on helping team members succeed and not on mechanistic job performance. Anne’s 8 basic tips reinforce many of the lessons leaders need to know and implement.
“1. It’s all in the relationship.” When you get to know your team members as individuals with tastes, preferences, and their own capabilities and knowledge, you can help them fit into team needs. When they get to know you, they can better understand the direction you set and the goals of the team as you express them.
“2. Always follow the 7:1 rule.” That’s seven pieces of positive feedback for every one that is suggestive or critical. Make it a habit to reinforce what is being done right as your primary means of developing your team. Keep a perspective about suggestion and criticism over recognizing things done well or even just the day to day competent performance.
“3. Be clear about your expectations.” This is the ‘no surprises’ rule. People need to know where they are going, how they are going to get there, and their role in the journey. They need to know how success will be measured for both their own efforts and for the team effort.
“4. Speak up when you see behavior that can be improved.” This is another view of tip 2, the 7:1 rule. It differs in that it is not a recognition of past behavior but rather a clearing of the path for future behavior. It does not critique what was done but points out what could be done.
“5. Coach people onto the playing field.” There are rules both written and unwritten. There are boundaries and limitations about what can be done and how it is to be done. Make sure your team knows the limits, knows the rules, knows how to play the game on the field, and exercises their initiative and innovation within those constraints. There is a matter of being out of the box versus off the field of play or even out of the stadium. Keep your team on the field.
“6. Focus on soft skills as well as hard skills.” The entire team can be embarrassed when a member commits a faux pas and it is particularly hard on the individual involved. Your job is to help your team members know the rules, know the implications of their behavior, know the answers, and to help them avoid putting their foot in their mouth due to ignorance, incompetence, or even sloppiness.
“Many times managers are hesitant to coach someone who is being too abrasive, too passive, not a problem-solver, or what have you, because they feel it’s not tangible enough to talk about,” Frankel observes. “But workplace success is contingent upon so much more than just doing the job.”
Your role as a coach is to help people develop all the skills they need, not just (perhaps not even mainly) the technical ones.
“7. Be a servant leader.” You have a function on the team as leader. In performing that function, you provide each of your followers a service. Ask yourself ‘How well am I serving them?’”
“8. Prepare for each coaching session.” You are the one who needs to know from the gut but lead from the mind. Think first, don’t just react. Consider what you are going to say and how it will be perceived before you say it. Avoid judgment and help others find their best path.
Human beings are compounded of cognition and emotion and do not function well when treated as though they were merely cogs in motion… The task of the administrator must be accomplished less by coercion and discipline and more and more by persuasion … Management of the future must look more to leadership and less to authority as the primary means of coordination. - Luther H Gulick